This is about burning bridges. I have recently been going through a lot in my life, probably not as much as others but we all measure things differently right? So anyways what I think about burning your bridges. People love to have choices in life, we all have them and the more we have the better? Sometimes that isn't always the case and sometimes it is. We can't always have the choices that we want in life though. We cant choose the way our genetics predispose us to act certain ways but we can try to change them. We can change a lot of things. But what about the things you can't change? The decisions we make that are permanent. We are all deep down inside afraid of change to a certain extent. But burning bridges keeps us from limiting our options, limiting that change we all fear. What happens when we have too many choices though? We may hurt more in the long run versus the one or two that may be hurt in the short run. We should try to prevent burning certain bridges like with family, future options, maybe friends and relationships. But who is to say that these things are necessarily helpful to your future. Once we burn a bridge there is nothing we can do. Nothing to look back on, just the future. Even if it was the wrong thing to do we cannot live regretfully. Nothing can be accomplished if you look back on what could have been. We must look to the future and learn from our mistakes, maybe change our standards, and soon we will begin to realize that closing one door opens up many more. It is okay to recognize mistakes we make, and okay to be afraid of that change. But it is NOT okay to live in the past because it will never be the same.
And that is my opinion for the night.
Also the bookstore has been claiming my soul for the last 2 weeks so I haven't been able to post and that makes me sad :(
Two more things:
And this song to finish the night
Goodnight I love you to the moon and back :]
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